Foreign Wives: Age Does Not Matter

By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Kendrick_D_Keeton]Kendrick D Keeton
Age does not matter when you are searching for a foreign wife. Here in North America age can be the deal breaker. If you're 20 years older your chances of getting a relationship with her are minimal. Also there is a certain stigma associated with both parties. The Man will get the 'Dirty old man' look and the woman will get constant pressure from friends and family to find someone younger. This isn't always the case but is very possible. Foreign women do not have such stigmas in their cultures or if they do they are very slight. For example, I have many friends who married women from the Philippines. One is 24 years older (he is 52, she is 28) and the other is 32 years older (she is 40, he is 72) and they have healthy and happy marriages. Both have told me directly that they feel so lucky. I have a sense of pride for every relationship I've helped grow. When two people find each other, no matter the age difference, it is the most beautiful and positive thing in the world as far as I'm concerned.
Age difference requires consideration. My advice for those connecting with women much younger than themselves is to consider some simple ideas. One, always ask the women if her family, primarily the father, will feel about her being with a man that might be older than himself. This is necessary since the family is part of the bargain, and you don't want to get yourself into an uncomfortable situation when you finally meet the family. Two, help her grow. I had a friend who one time ask me if it was a good idea to let her work after they got married. I told him that the only way for their relationship to work would be to inspire and support anything she wanted. There are a lot of older men who are financially advanced and wouldn't see the necessity for his wife to work, but a successful relationship requires that they just let go of any controlling tendencies and support her. These women are younger and have ambitions... to do otherwise will guarantee resentment and in the end they will leave you.
One last idea that I would express is to consider a woman that is over the age of 25. If you're an older man, say at least 50 years or more, it will be a lot better to start looking at women no younger than 26 or 27. I say this not so much because of the age gap, but more because of a maturity gap... especially in the Asian cultures. The girls over there are not as 'worldly' as women here. Where a women in the U.S. by the age of 24 has had several sexual partners or relationships (and most likely a couple kids)... in the Asian countries, a women of age 24 is most likely a virgin and there is a good chance she has never had a boyfriend. By the time they reach 27 and they are still single, they start to realize that it's very possible that they might never have a husband. This is the best time for you... the older white knight to come and save her from a life of loneliness. I know that sounds corny, but it's absolutely true.
In conclusion, don't be hesitant about dating and marrying a foreign wife who is much younger, but do consider some of the things mentioned in this article. I'm sure that in the end ultimate joy will be yours no matter what age difference because love truly knows no limits.
Article By: Kendrick Keeton (Web Designer, Software Developer, Librarian)
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