Here's How To Stop Being Overlooked By Women And Start Getting Their Attention

By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Daniel_S_Harper]Daniel S Harper
Have you ever felt like women don't reject you so much as they just don't SEE you?
I had that problem in college. I'd walk into a bar or a party and just sort of get lost in the crowd.
I later figured out that the problem was there was nothing about me that really stood out.
Now some gurus "solve" this problem for you by telling you to "peacock." If you don't know what that means, it basically involves wearing loud, flashy, attention getting clothes.
You know... dressing up like a clown--one who's desperate for attention and who has so little confidence in his personality that he has to overcompensate by wearing ridiculous clothes.
That's how I see it, anyway. Personally, I never want to be that guy. Your mileage may vary, of course.
There's a better way to separate yourself from the pack. And that's to have a "thing." That's what I was missing in college. No "thing."
What's a "thing?" Think of it as branding. You take whatever "type" you are and amp it up a bit through your wardrobe choices.
If you're a hippie-type, you do the tie-dye. Surfer dude? Do the casual, laid back thing. If you own a motorcycle. black shirt and boots is an awesome bad-boy look.
Anything but dull, indistinguishable clothing.
Here's why it works--all women have a type that they prefer. Fit into one of those types and she's sure to give you extra consideration.
Fit into NO type and you're never someone's first pick.
When you're a type, you're immediately interesting to someone. Girls will start assigning you cool traits before they've even spoken to you. That's a big advantage--one you should exploit if you want to bag as many hot girls as possible
Does that make sense?
Here's another way to look at it--he who tries to please everyone ultimately pleases no one.
Marketers understand this concept very well. They figure out the demographic that's most likely interested in their product and gear all their advertising toward that particular crowd.
If they turn a lot of other people off in the process, they don't worry about it. It's the most likely buyers they're after.
They know that having a bland, overly broad image actually hurts sales because it waters down their image to the point where nothing about the product stands out.
This goes the same for dating. The more you hone your image, the more narrow your dating market is. This ends up actually benefiting you because even though you're narrowing your market, the girls in that market are MUCH MORE likely to show interest in you.
Ask yourself, based on who YOU are, which kinds of girls do you think would be interested in you? Once you've figured that out, it's now just a matter of targeting your appeal toward them.
Do this and you'll never have to feel overlooked again because you'll always have a hungry market that wants what you're selling.
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